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The Boat by Nam Le

May 12, 2009 · Leave a Comment

The Boat The Boat by Nam Le



Recommended by Mike Valente

The Boat, a book of short stories published in 2008, is a participant in perhaps the greatest year of short story collections we have seen in a century. It is rare to find short story collections that amount to more than uneven attempts but still more uncommon to have a year with five or six collections that match brilliance of Hemingway, O’Connor or Chekov. What distinguishes The Boat and its fellow collections (Unaccustomed Earth, Better Angel, Diction, and Dangerous Laughter) is that they embody a consistent tone that subtly tells us these stories need to be told. This tone is a sign of confidence and assurance in Nam Le’s first collection and it’s coupled with his oddly familiar settings that build with urgency as our characters struggle with their own identities: cultural, ethnic, and professional.

Yet still, like all first collections, The Boat contains the apologetic, self defense of the writer that can be dangerously wearisome. Here it is in the first story of the collection where a character extremely reminiscent in name and personality to the author struggles through writers workshops being criticized as ‘too ethnic.’ This is not a new technique (think D.F. Wallace’s Westward the Course of Empire Takes Its Way or Philip Roth’s Operation Shylock) but still it’s much preferred to long tedious apologetic introductions or random and misguided author intrusions that often exhaust the reader. Nam Le is in no way wearisome, however, simply because his own self-criticisms are distant from the rest of his collection and in reading the remainder of his stories you realize his insecurities must have washed away soon after writing about them. In name and history he is writing about himself, but the faults Nam Le has in the story do not translate or even remain recognizable in the other stories.

Le is an immigrant, and his stories highlight the struggle of migration, immersion, and nationality. He never, however, starts his stories with these themes, but seems to have, like his fellow 2008 authors, an urgency to just simply write and to show, allowing his personal experiences and themes to ooze out along the way. This is not the best collection of short stories of 2008 (Adrian’s A Better Angel takes that torch for me), but it is a wonderful contribution to a year where literature and culture seemed poised to discuss identity and courageous enough to display it.

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“We build our worldviews half asleep”

January 19, 2009 · Leave a Comment

How to Be Your Own Best Friend How to Be Your Own Best Friend by Mildred Newman



How to Be Your Own Best Friend was recommended to me by my Mom. When she recommended it to me she wrote: “I know, it sounds corny and it will take you about 20 minutes to read, but it got me through some tough times when I was a teen and before I met your Dad.”

I have little experience with books that would be labeled ‘self-help’ or ‘personal psychology.’ Lately, of course, I’ve been reading a few books that attempt to offer general advice and answers to people in various situations. But this book, in its format and content, aims not to elucidate grand themes or life lessons but instead to reveal the essential ways we choose to view our situations and ourselves.

The book is written by two psychologists who also happen to be husband and wife. The question and answer format gives the book’s main voice a relentless feel in conveying its message. I wouldn’t say there is a unifying theme in this book. This is what distinguishes it in fact, that there is no ‘message’ per se in this book. (It has no oversimplified advice to sell (no pseudo-mantra for Oprah to promote (no cliché’ system to eventually drive it out of date (thus drive it out of print.)))) This is the beauty of the book: that is searches for ways to break down the modes of thought that fail to lead us out of sorrow. It reminds us that it is often our natural inclination to feel sorrow and we must address our selves at the core: “We build our worldviews half asleep and let them, like tinted lenses, color our lives (pg. 49).
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